Only 28% of parents assign children chores, poll says
Parenting expert says children should start helping out with chores by age of 18 months
Parenting expert says children should start helping out with chores by age of 18 months
Parenting expert says children should start helping out with chores by age of 18 months
You probably remember the many chores you had to do growing up, but is your child helping out around the house as much as you did back then? If the answer is no, you're not alone — you're part of a large group of parents that had chores as a kid, but don't give their kids any. According to a conducted by Braun Research and commissioned by , 82 percent of the American parents surveyed said they regularly did chores as kids, but only 28 percent give their own children chores now.
According to child development expert Dr. Deborah Gilboa, many moms and dads today believe their kids are too busy with homework and extracurricular activities to be burdened with chores. But, as reported on "," Dr. Gilboa thinks regular chores are the best way to raise kids to be "problem-solvers of good character." That said, she provided "Today" with a handy guide of what kids should be doing around the house at what age.
Here's a quick glance at some takeaways from :
From 18 months to 3 years old, Dr. Gilboa says children want to be "big kids" and this phase of budding independence is a perfect time to start having them help with household duties. Start them off small— for example, try letting him or her hold the dustpan as you sweep, Dr. Gilboa suggests.
From 4 to 5 years old, let your child perform small tasks on their own, like picking up toys.
From 6 to 8 years old, weekly chores should already be established, says Dr. Gilboa, and daily tasks are even better. As far as what chores to assign your child, an 8-year-old is perfectly capable of doing the laundry, according to Dr. Gilbert, whose own son is an expert at clothes-cleaning duties. He even made a how-to video about it:
To see more of Dr. Gilboa's suggestions for age-appropriate chores for kids ages 9 to 18, head to .
Bond with other parents who found their kid's toys in strange places in the related video above.