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This is the perfect number of kids to have

You might not need that minivan after all

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This is the perfect number of kids to have

You might not need that minivan after all

Having one or two children can boost your happiness. But when you pop out a third one? Not so much, according to a 2014 study in which researchers assessed the happiness of British and German parents before and after the births of their children.That's not to say third, fourth, and fifth children are loved any less than their older siblings, as any member of a five-plus family will confirm. It's just that parenthood becomes a bit less novel after you've seen the miracle of life (twice!) and changed about a billion diapers. And after you have two children, extra kids could cause financial strain, according to the researchers. Another theory: In larger families, the youngest children may be unplanned, which can open a whole other can of worms in the stress department.For what it's worth, the mood boost you get from growing your family isn't particularly long-lasting — even after your first child is born. The research suggests that babies boost your happiness the year before their birth, and the year after. But after that, you'll probably revert back to whatever emotional state you were in before kids entered the picture. The research also suggests that the older you are when you have your first kid, the happier you'll become, and the longer that happiness will last.

Having one or two children can boost your happiness. But when you pop out a third one? Not so much, according to a 2014 in which researchers assessed the happiness of British and German parents before and after the births of their children.

That's not to say third, fourth, and fifth children are loved any less than their older siblings, as any member of a five-plus family will confirm. It's just that parenthood becomes a bit less novel after you've seen the miracle of life (twice!) and changed about a billion diapers. And after you have two children, extra kids could cause financial strain, according to the researchers. Another theory: In larger families, the youngest children may be unplanned, which can open a whole other can of worms in the stress department.

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For what it's worth, the mood boost you get from growing your family isn't particularly long-lasting — even after your first child is born. The research suggests that babies boost your happiness the year before their birth, and the year after. But after that, you'll probably revert back to whatever emotional state you were in before kids entered the picture.

The research also suggests that the older you are when you have your first kid, the happier you'll become, and the longer that happiness will last.