Your royal wedding obsession could be dangerous, a psychiatrist warns
Hereās how to know youāve gone too far
Hereās how to know youāve gone too far
Hereās how to know youāve gone too far
Obsessed with the latest news about Prince Harry and Meghan Markle? These days, who isnāt? But according to a report from , you should probably monitor how all-encompassing your interest in all things royal becomes ā because it could turn into an actual mental illness.
Psychiatrist Sue Varma, an assistant professor at New York University Langone Medical Center, told Reuters that thereās nothing inherently wrong with loving every last bit of Meghan Markle family gossip. But there comes a point where royal obsession can get pretty dark.
āItās the lack of other activities, the lack of flexibility, the fact that youāre taking away time from something else. Is this time that you could have been spending with your kids? Is this time you could be talking with your partner?ā Varma said.
Varma also noted that you fawning over Harry is an entirely one-sided relationship, unless you are literally Meghan Markle. So be sure youāre keeping that in mind when you keep refreshing Kensington Palaceās Instagram account. āWhen you start socializing with people that you donāt know, when you donāt have a reciprocal relationship, this is called parasocial. Itās one-sided,ā she said. āThis is a problem when youāre living in a fantasy world at the expense of creating real relationships.ā
reports that parasocial relationships often occur with celebrities or even fictional characters. Most are totally harmless, like being way too invested in Olivia Popeās decisions on "Scandal." But others can become dangerous, like when John Hinckley Jr. tried to assassinate Ronald Reagan to impress Jodie Foster. Sure, most people arenāt going to go that far, thankfully, but thereās still a definite downside to celebrity obsession.
Many people turn to parasocial relationships when theyāre feeling lonely, according to "," which is why rom-coms can feel great after a breakup. It just reflects every personās fundamental need to belong to a social group.
But some social scientists worry that too much time with parasocial relationships will take away from your time talking to actual people you're acquainted with. So if youāre planning on watching Prince Harry and Meghan Markleās wedding in May, invite a few friends over. Itāll be more funā and healthier for you, too.